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At 29, I Thought I Was Running Out of Time—Here’s Why 39 Is My New ‘Just Getting Started

At 29, I thought I’d missed all my big chances, but now at 39, I know life is just getting started! If you’re feeling like it’s too late to chase your dreams or make a fresh start, here’s your reminder: you’re never “too old” and it’s never “too late” to go after the life you want. The best is still ahead of you!

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12 Things That Don’t Define You—And Why It’s Time to Let Them Go

Break free from society’s obsession with labels, milestones, and metrics. In this empowering guide, we’re debunking the myths that tie your worth to external factors—like your job title, appearance, or social media followers—and reminding you that your value comes from within. It’s time to embrace your authenticity, ditch the checkboxes, and live life on your own terms.

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39 Lessons I’ve Learned in 39 Years

In 39 years, I’ve collected my fair share of life lessons, and trust me—they’re not your typical “live, laugh, love” advice. From the beauty of embracing imperfections to knowing when to let go, each lesson is a reminder to live authentically, love fiercely, and trust the timing of your life. This isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress, gratitude, and learning that your journey is uniquely yours. So, whether you’re 19, 39, or somewhere in between, there’s a nugget (or 39!) in here for you.

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Unsolicited Life Advice from a Rainy Day in New York

Always be the best person you can be. Be kind even when you’re tired. Be understanding even when you’re angry. Do more than you’re asked, and don’t ask for anything in return. Don’t silently expect anything either. Listen when someone talks, and really listen too, stop just thinking of how you’ll reply. Tell people that you love them and that you appreciate them.

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12 Things to Leave Behind

Whenever a new year begins, we talk a lot about what we want to add into our life. Have you ever wondered why we don’t talk about what we need to leave in the past? A key component to adding good things to your life successfully is ridding yourself of the past.

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